Removing Biases And Breaking Through Limiting Beliefs In My Community
I was sitting in the principals office, listening to her tell me that I wasn’t dressed appropriately.
But I wasn’t in high school. I was an adult—married with kids.
(I had specifically bought a black, approved-length skirt and sweater.)
It wasn’t my outfit. It was my fall wig. The principal admitted it wasn’t her decision—a parent had called to complain about me.
“Complain about what exactly?” I asked.
“Maybe it’s because you’re blonde.”
Another time, I was wearing a turtleneck at a school play when a mother approached me. Apparently, it was too form fitting for her.
“Before you leave your house” she said, “you should ask yourself: Am I wearing something tight-fitted that shows my body?”
I live in Lakewood. I’ve lived here for almost 20 years. Episodes like these only added to the anxiety I was already struggling with. I would have panic attacks for a full week before any school event. I’d curse, cry, and fight with myself. I dressed as someone else, my insides came out. It made me sick.
Lakewood grew more diverse, I remained stuck in my own biased thinking.
The past few years, I’ve been working through old wounds—removing limiting beliefs and expectations imposed by others. The constant refrain in my head: You’re not good enough. You should be like them.
I’ve been replacing those thoughts. Rebuilding my values. Restoring my confidence. Rediscovering my deservedness. Finding my truth. Balancing respect for others without losing myself.
Living in a way that feels good to me. Thriving.
This past Tuesday, I stood on stage in Lakewood as the emcee for Rabbi Shais Taub. As I looked out at the crowd of 300 women, I saw mitpachas, falls, short sheitels with extra coverings, super-long wigs, and tichels. I saw hair with highlights in every shade.
There were midi skirts, short skirts, and skirts with slits. Clothes in all black and bright colors. Coach bags, Target finds, and Prada. Extra piercings, and even a newborn baby.
And there I stood, grounded in my truth. Observing a stunning kaleidoscope of tradition within one religion. I felt one heart beating in that room.
This, is my healing.
Now, I want to help you discover your own healing, confidence, and stand strong in your truth.
That’s why I created Discover Your Deservedness, a transformative group coaching program designed to help you:
✨ Rebuild your confidence and self-worth.
✨ Break free from limiting beliefs and expectations imposed by others.
✨ Live authentically while honoring your values and identity.
Who is this for?
This program is for women who feel trapped by external expectations and self-doubt. You’ve spent years trying to fit into a mold, but deep down, you long to feel free, confident, and enough—exactly as you are.
This is for you if you’re struggling with…
- Anxiety over being judged for who you are or how you show up.
- Feeling disconnected from your true self and your unique value.
- Struggling to balance respect for others’ values with staying true to yourself.
- Believing you’re not enough and questioning if you truly deserve love, success, happiness, or to confidently live as your authentic self.
This is for you if you want…
- To feel confident in your decisions, unapologetically YOU.
- To replace self-doubt with self-assurance.
- To learn how to self-car guilt free.
- To live a life aligned with your truth—one that feels good to you and leaves you feeling fulfilled.
What you’ll receive:
✔ 6 weeks of live On-Line group coaching sessions in a safe, supportive space.
✔ Tools and strategies to reframe limiting beliefs and build lasting confidence.
✔ Guided exercises for embracing self-respect and individuality.
✔ Practical self-love practices to deepen your connection with yourself to empower you to speak up and stand confidently in your truth.
✔ Community support with like-minded women on the same journey.
Who you’ll become after:
💎 A confident, grounded woman who trusts her worth—whether she’s speaking up in a meeting, setting boundaries with loved ones, or embracing opportunities she once feared.
💎 A woman who respects others’ values while proudly choosing what feels right for her, whether it’s how she dresses, the career she pursues, or how she lives her life.
💎 Someone who thrives authentically, free of guilt when saying “no,” free of fear when making bold decisions, and free of shame about being her true self.
If you’re ready to step into your confidence, reconnect with your authentic self, and surround yourself with supportive women, Discover Your Deservedness will help you feel empowered, worthy, confident, and free to live the life that truly feels like yours.
✨ Early Bird Offer! ✨
This is your chance to join Discover Your Deservedness at an exclusive early-bird rate! 🎉
🌟 Small group experience: Intimate and supportive, designed for deep connections.
🌟 Limited spots: This is your opportunity to claim one of the few available spaces.
🌟 Limited-time pricing: Early bird pricing is only available for a short time—don’t wait!
The price will increase soon, and once the group is full, doors close. Don’t miss your chance to transform your confidence, self-worth, and life!
✨ Secure your spot now—click the link below!
https://forms.gle/5wqxHnhdT2GAV1Vv8
Investment: $699 – limited time only!
Dates & Times: Wednesdays at 11:15 AM
6 weekly 75-minute group coaching sessions + Q&A
We go live on December 18th!
Secure your spot NOW and transform your confidence, self-worth, and life!
I look forward to growing and sharing this journey together!
With love and excitement,
Zipporah Ruth
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