Why Am I So Accepting of Challenges?
Why am I so accepting of challenges, especially when bad things happen to me? Why do I allow myself to just take it?
And why, when something good comes my way—a kind word from a friend, a hug from someone new, or an amazing opportunity—do I have such a hard time receiving it?
Who Am I To Deserve Good?
For years, this was my life. I accepted every challenge as it came, the hard and the ugly, but when something good happened, I couldn’t embrace it. It felt like a fluke, a stroke of luck, or like love’s arrow had hit the wrong person. It didn’t feel like it was meant for me.
It’s not that I was happy about hard times or enjoyed the pain. And I didn’t live a miserable life—I took vacations, bought the dress I liked—but I couldn’t fully appreciate it. Good feelings felt uncomfortable, unfamiliar, and even a little scary.
On consultation calls with potential clients, I often hear: “I am SO ready for this!” “I can’t wait to start working with you!” “I know I’m ready for change; I want more out of life!”
And yet, when it’s time to sign the contract, cold feet set in. I hear, “I really need this coaching now, but…” The excitement is there, but they hold back because, deep down, they don’t feel they deserve the good things that await them.
This reminds me of a time not too long ago when I, too, struggled to feel Deserving. I wondered what helped me break free of that limiting mindset and how I could help guide other women to do the same.
“…And I kept waiting and waiting for that day, thinking, when will someone take care of me?” Zipporah Ruth.
As the oldest of 6 siblings with both parents working full time, physically and emotionally unavailable, I have never experienced being cared for. I had always hoped someone who fiercely and unconditionally loved me would hold me, rock me, soothe me. My heart ached for the love I never received. It still does.
Crying and pining for the love we didn’t get won’t give it to us. But loving ourselves now will.
Discover Your Deservedness
In Discover Your Deservedness, we gently tap at the heart’s crusted exterior. The limiting beliefs that you’ve held to be true—that you’re undeserving of love—will start to crumble. Because lies cannot last.
The truth is, you do deserve love. We all do. We’re just waiting to be discovered.
In just five weeks, you’ll feel the cracks forming, the limiting beliefs dissolving. You’ll be able to touch your tender heart and say, “I will take care of you. Because I love you. Fiercely. Unconditionally.”
You will, Discover Your Deservedness.
If you’re on a personal growth journey but still struggle to feel truly deserving of love and guilt-free happiness, I invite you to join me on a journey to Discover Your Deservedness.
In this 5-week online group coaching program, we’ll work together to release limiting beliefs, open up new possibilities, and remove what’s holding you back from receiving all the good life has to offer. This journey is about Discovering the feeling that you Deserve it all.
About The Program
This 5-week experience is designed to help you recognize your worth and step confidently into the life you deserve. In a safe, supportive environment, we’ll explore what it means to feel deserving of life’s blessings—whether that’s love, success, happiness, or simply being at peace with who you are.
Each week, through live group sessions and transformative exercises, you’ll:
- Reclaim Your Inner Worth: Connect with your authentic self, release past beliefs, and recognize your true value.
- Transform Limiting Beliefs: Break through self-doubt and negative stories that have held you back, opening the way to receive more love and happiness.
- Embody Confidence and Self-Acceptance: Develop the confidence to set healthy boundaries and make choices that honor who you are and what you truly deserve.
- Create Lasting Self-Worth: Cultivate an enduring sense of worthiness and acceptance, so you feel empowered to receive and enjoy life’s blessings.
In addition, you’ll connect with other women on a similar journey, building community, sharing insights, and feeling uplifted by collective support.
By the end of the program, you’ll leave feeling:
- Worthy of love, success, and happiness
- Confident and grounded in your decisions
- Open to receiving the goodness life has to offer
This is for you if….
- You’re ready to stop doubting your worth and start believing you deserve more in life
- You feel held back by limiting beliefs and want to break free from self-sabotage
- You crave more confidence, clarity, and alignment in your personal and professional life
- You’re seeking authentic, loving, healthy relationships
- You’re ready to prioritize your own needs and desires
- You’re committed to personal growth and are ready to take action toward living the life of your dreams
If this feels like you….
I’d love for you to experience this transformation alongside a supportive group of women who, like you, are ready to claim their Deservedness.
Program Dates & Details
Sessions start on November 13th and run every Wednesday from 1:00–2:15 pm EST. Don’t worry about missing a session—we have you covered with recorded replays!
Dates:
- Wednesdays, 1:00–2:15 pm EST (U.S.)
- November 13, 20, 27. December 4, 11
Optional Upgrade: Fast-track your results with 1:1 private coaching! Limited spots are available—reach out for more info.
Early Bird Discount: Sign up by October 31st to lock in the early bird price of $429. After that, the price will be $499.
This is THE turning point in your journey toward self-love and confidence. If you’re ready, simply click the link below to secure your spot.
Looking forward to seeing you there!
Because I believe you Deserve.
Warmly, Zipporah Ruth
