On the first date with my now husband, I told him that I didn’t want to have the pressure of working when I had kids.
I was only 17, but I already knew then I wanted to be the kind of mother was who always available for her children. I wanted them to feel like they were the most important in the world to me. I wanted them to have what I didn’t have.
5 years, 3 pregnancies and 2 kids later, I was doing all the things I thought a present mother was supposed to be. For years I tried desperately to keep up with my perception of perfect – and I was killing myself.
Where do we draw the line? Where do we being and end? Who am “I” other than “Mother”?
As a mother, our job never ends.
But that doesn’t mean we need to lose ourselves in motherhood; it doesn’t mean we need to cancel our dreams or disregard our desires while secretly wishing for a different life.
For years I thought I was being the “perfect mom”, but in reality, I was only acting.
I didn’t know any better, I only knew I wanted my daughters to have a different kind of mother, and so I did the opposite of what I had known.
I was so busy “doing”, that I wasn’t “being”.
My journey of healing, self growth and reflection, showed me where I went wrong, and how with lots of self-care and self-love I can show up every day and gift my children with the mother everyone yearns for and deserves, A Present One.
This Mother’s Day, I celebrate not just the mother I am, but the Woman I choose to be.
I’m a homemaker. A business woman. A legacy builder.
By choosing myself I’m healing generations before me, and showing my daughters they can choose themselves too.
A mothers love begins with Loving and Honoring herself, and through that, I Empower my daughters to do the same.
This Mother’s Day, I celebrate not just the mother I am, but the woman I choose to be.
To the Moms out there trying your best, don’t just do it for them, do it for you too.
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